So you’re in writer’s marketing high gear. You’ve set up your blog. Tweeted and twittered. Facebooked, liked, and followed. You’ve read the marketing tips, blogs on social media success, tips on tweeting. Smile on your face, you are surfing the social media maze. Mail Chimp geared up, you’ve drafted a slick newsletter proclaiming your worthiness and upcoming events. Poised, polished and ready to hit . . . . send. Click.
And then BAM, your friend unfriended you. Your follower unfollowed. Your co-worker unsubscribed to your email blast. What gives? All that work. All that energy. How could they? Why would they? Why would they hurt your feelings so?
In a recent Forbes article, Eric Limer writes “Most of the time it’s due to offensive comments, or the fact that you were never real friends with people in the first place. But you can also get cut off for updating too frequently or too infrequently. If it makes you feel any better, “physical attractiveness” and “increasing friend count” rank 4 and 5 on the list of reasons to friend people in the first place, so you’re probably better off with fewer friends in that case.” He goes on to list the following top six reasons that people unfriend, unfollow, and unsubscribe as:
1. Offensive comments
2. Don’t know you well
3. You are trying to sell something
4. You make depressing comments
5. You don’t interact much with others
6. You make political comments
Diana Adams, a social media blogger concurs. In addition, she confirms that too much self promotion, obvious automation, being offensive, posting too many hashtags, and not driving real conversations are all doomsday for tweets. Don’t be a used car salesman. Sure, it takes about three or four points of contact before someone will make the connection and buy your book. That is why follow-up is important. Just don’t overdo it. Pay it foward through promotion of others work as well. A tweet or blurb about a book is always more powerful when it comes from someone other than you. It’s more genuine.
So, it is essential that you create a blog, facebook page, and twitter page that present the brand and image that you want to show positively. Keep your snide and downer comments in your personal diary. Far, far away from your reading public. As a writer, promo perky as you try to be; the rejection can be tough. You put in hours of work and effort to have your neighbor down the street, click UN- Harsh!
Balance your time with social media. Don’t let it overwhelm you. Writing is your gift. Make sure you are giving it enough time. Set a time limit for your social media and don’t let it drive you crazy! Slap some Neosporin on your war wounds and just keep going. Let the momentum build. Slowly, but surely. In the book marketing game, the tortoise wins the race.